How do you stop self-sabotaging when you go after your goal? Most people like me make great resolutions (weight loss, great career project, getting $xx per month, etc.), but end up not far from where we started. We take the steps, but something is taking us back without knowing. This something creates a lot of unpleasant feelings, and pushes us to quit. ... How do you stop self-sabotaging when you go after your goal?