If I try to be myself at work and my colleagues aren't really comfortable with my person. If I withdraw and keep to myself and make my communication and social activity at work very minimal just because I don't want to feel embarrassed or make any one feel uncomfortable. I do that because I can control myself but what I can't control to a very good level is how other people perceive me. Now this can make a me appear to be somebody else and that might work very well for everybody at work but that is not me. So being yourself isn't just the issue but how people react to it. How do we put a balance to that? How do we get everyone to be comfortable and be their self?