’No’ Is My Favorite Word: Breaking the Cycle of Over-Committing
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I said yes to everything! While I’ve had some amazing one-of-a-kind experiences, I’ve endured...
I said yes to everything! While I’ve had some amazing one-of-a-kind experiences, I’ve endured even more unnecessary stress from chronic over-committing. To get my groove back, I learned to break the cycle of yes related stress. One of the major issues I had to overcome was my own perception of saying, ‘no’. ‘No’ seemed negative, final, and harsh. Enter what I like to call the constructive ‘no’. Similar to constructive criticism, the constructive ‘no’ allowed me to engage with how I wanted to commit my time and energy in a more active, participatory way.
In this chat, I want you to walk away with:
- An understanding of the constructive ‘no’
- Method for evaluating what to say ‘no’ to
- A few nice, yet firm ways, to say ‘no’
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What are some tools or tips you use to track how much capacity you have to say 'yes'?
By: Karina, Supervising Transportation PlannerPosted on 2020-09-16 -
Would like to know the tips to say constructive ¨no¨ in both work and life situation!
By: Mengyu, Business DevelopmentPosted on 2020-09-15 -
How do you say no, when you have previously said yes and explain why? Do you even have to explain?
By: LucyPosted on 2020-09-15 -
How do you deal with the fear of missing out on opportunities?
By: Patricia, ScientistPosted on 2020-09-15 -
How do you deal with the guilt of saying no?
By: Claire, StudentPosted on 2020-09-14 -
How to say no in a more receptive way?
By: Jane, FounderPosted on 2020-09-14 -
Do you use different qualifications for home life vs. work life?
By: Tory, Director of MarketingPosted on 2020-09-14 -
How do we break the socialisation of feeling bad when you say no.
By: WCAPSPosted on 2020-09-10 -
I spend a lot of time thinking about delivery in industries under pressure, that are booming - aka labour shortages. Saying NO at work is a difficult negotiation for people in this environment....
By: Christine, Project EngineerPosted on 2020-09-10 -
I'd love guidance on how to say "Not now" without shutting off future requests.
By: Aimee, Portfolio ManagerPosted on 2020-09-10 -
How to gracefully un-commit after already saying yes.
By: KaylaPosted on 2020-09-08 -
What is your advice for recovering people pleasers as aspiring, impactful leaders?
By: MandaPosted on 2020-09-07 -
What’s some best tips to say no and control your emotions of feeling like you are going to hurt someone’s feelings?
By: Catrina, Ptoduct ManagerPosted on 2020-09-06 -
Just curious how you say no to managers !
By: SteffaniePosted on 2020-09-04 -
I believe there is an art to saying no without closing the door on future opportunities. Do you have any tips for how to do this?
By: ReesePosted on 2020-09-02 -
How do i stop feeling guilty about ignoring cold (and often irrelevant to me) emails and linkedin requests?!
By: Amy, Marketing ManagerPosted on 2020-09-02
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